I don't know who said it and I don't care. In the course of interaction on here, someone called my daughter fat or implied such. Now she can defend herself...she is going to be a mother (again) and has no problem doing that as I have had to ask her to curb her opinions more than once.
But I will not shut her up completely. If you are a racist or a sexist, that is her opinion and she has a right to voice that within reason. I am sure its nothing you have not heard before, most of you. However..she doesnt post her picture because she is pregnant and EXTREMELY self conscience of her weight right now. She suffers from an eating disorder in which we had to FORCE HER TO EAT until she was about 21 and was hospitalized several times.
Weight is a issue in my family as is health. To be perfectly honest, I dont like posting my picture either because I am no longer my perfect size 7 or 9 anymore since going through menopause which upsets me and all I eat is salad or small portions, I drink water. Its terrible, the judgement women get, she was just fired from her job for being pregnant ( I know the law on this better than anyone on here). But in truth, she wasn't there long enough and it is VERY DIFFICULT to prove. SO SHE IS SUPER SELF CONSCIOUS right now.
But to actually call a pregnant person you do not know fat? Are you crazy? I don't men insensitive... I mean crazy. Some of you are actually educated people on this site. She is a young person venting against racism and sexism. It is a generational thing and I believe from what I have seen lately anyway it will get worse, not better and by far more outspoken people than my daughter.
I honestly don't care what you think, but I have been on this page a long time. If you want to label her as a non-racist in some slur fine, its deserved. Also I don't want her to stop eating over something some insensitive person said to her which I actually understand, BECAUSE WOMEN ARE SEVERELY JUDGED. Have some common decency. This is my daughter and I expected that from all of you.
There is no need to comment because I will not answer you... I will be back in January or February depending on my glass work and other obligations. I just had to say something. I'm really sorry and I will speak to her also, but you have to have some respect. If you have something to say to me, tell me then or don't, but please do not do this to my child who is trying to defend her rights as a woman.