Women's Standing up Against DICKTATION or Laying Down for it: A matter of Opportunity and More

It was not that Anita Hill was treated unfairly, it was that, as Michael Manley of Jamaica was ahead of his time, she was ahead of her time in pointing out abuses that women endured. Many women worked as secretaries with jobs that entailed taking DICTATION but was forced to take DICKTATION, even doing so under President Clinton's desk in the White House. 

Some women did not mind as the perks were great. They were the married bosses or pastors' side chicks. So are these White women more valued than Professor Hill was? No, it is a different time, and if the Republicans do not treat these ladies fairly, they will pay at the polls. Dicktation goes on all the time. Ask any undocumented Jamaican or other women working for a green card in some New Jersey or other boondock in the US. They will tell you that at night when the bosses wife is gone to bed, he comes out to play. Hence, many of my fellow Jamaicans got their opportunity to immigrate to Jamaica for the DICKTATION their mothers took. Of course, this is a touchy subject and the culture of many Caribbean women is to grin and bear it. The Americans, on the other hand, will talk about it. Did Caribbean women have the same experiences in the UK or Canada? 

So young boys, be aware, parents, warn your sons. If their lizards begin to stand up, tell them that playing pocket billard is not a bad thing as the church says it is. 

The concern I have is that are we in an age where mothers must strap down male babies penises so as to have them retracted? Perhaps that would be the reverse but same outcome of the Chinese killing female babies.

Comments

FacePalm Added Sep 24, 2018 - 8:58am
FMO, not experience, most women will, at some point in their lives, be in a situation where sex is demanded/coerced/forced.
 
Most men don't have a clue about what most women have to put up with.  Best way i ever heard it described is this:
 
Imagine you are the cutest - and smallest - guy in a prison of 2000+ men, mostly guys so big you couldn't hurt them with your best-aimed shot, and what you'd have to put up with every day. 
Every.
Single.
Day.
Then, you might have the smallest of clues.
 
Frankly, i'm glad of the #me too movement, and hope many more sexual predators - male AND female - get their comeuppance.  i wouldn't mind some prosecutions for "aiding and abetting," too, like for Oprah, who allegedly set Weinstein up with MANY victims - or at the very least, prosecutions under Good Samaritan statutes, where people like Meryl Creep get busted for failing to warn others of the predators they KNEW about, again like Weinstein, but many more, too, like the "gay mafia" producers in Hellyweird who demand homosexual favors as a condition of their approval.
rycK the JFK Democrat Added Sep 24, 2018 - 6:15pm
I  think Anita Hill was a liar and activist trying to stop a conservative from a seat on SCOTUS. Nothing else. 
Dino Manalis Added Sep 24, 2018 - 6:27pm
 Sex abuse is serious, they shouldn't make false allegations for political reasons!
Ken Added Sep 24, 2018 - 6:30pm
Yes that wonderful Anita Hill, a lawyer and now college professor who is currently saying that Kavenaugh is Guilty before proven innocence and that his accuser has to be believed unless he can disprove her accusation.
 
What country do we live in now?
 
If you were around in 1991, Anita Hill was completely discredited and unbelievable in her testimony. 
 
Hillary Clinton enabled Bill Clinton's behavior. 
 
Does this happen?  yes.  Is it right? No.
 
But because it does happen doesn't mean it happened here, and so far there has been nothing credible and nothing corroborated about it.
The Burghal Hidage Added Sep 24, 2018 - 9:09pm
Doc -  You need to get a radio program! That would be fun
Mustafa Kemal Added Sep 25, 2018 - 12:55am
FacePalm
re:magine you are the cutest - and smallest - guy in a prison of 2000+ men, mostly guys so big you couldn't hurt them with your best-aimed shot, and what you'd have to put up with every day. 
Every.
Single.
Day.
Then, you might have the smallest of clues.'
 
Dude, what planet do you live on? That is the worst way Ive ever heard it described.  In fact, it is great disservice to women  to paint it so.
 
Mustafa
Cullen Kehoe Added Sep 25, 2018 - 2:39am
So the author is arguing against the MeToo Movement and saying it's all good for men to coerce women into sex (so long as the women get something out of it)? Win / Win? 
 
A little prostitution never hurt anybody? 
 
And you're concerned the MeToo Movement will have the effect of castrating boys now growing up? 
FacePalm Added Sep 25, 2018 - 2:42am
Mustafa-
Dude, what planet do you live on?
Earth, of course.
 
That is the worst way Ive ever heard it described.  In fact, it is great disservice to women  to paint it so.
You're entitled to your opinion, but women, FMO, are the objects of lust of most men every day, which is the point i made.  They pretty-much have to be constantly on-guard against this possibility, just like the hypothetical little guy in prison.
 
That you don't like this reality does not change it, more's the pity.
 
Consider the plight of women in Germany, for example, or Sweden, when it comes to Muslim immigrants who think they're entitled to rape any woman not wearing the tent...instead of exercising self-control and humane restraint of their lusts.
The Burghal Hidage Added Sep 25, 2018 - 6:47am
Hey Doc - I got ya....you're just telling the truth.  
 
Woman, thy name is vanity. Some ladies just dont wanna hear it, some men are just too scared to say it, but in vernacular : bitches be bitches.
 
Many, many, many women are only TOO happy to profit from the selective use of their feminine wiles. Many, many, many men are only TOO happy to play this game. In nature every species is granted certain tools which are to be to the survival of the species. All of this is perfectly normal animal behavior and for all of the great pains we take to deny it, we are still in the end animals.
 
#MeToo and those of that ilk are the jealous ugly bitches who can not compete in that game. There I said it. Some truths are ugly
The Burghal Hidage Added Sep 25, 2018 - 6:49am
I have no problem with women standing up for themselves, but before they go casting all of the onus on the men, they should instead be slappin' some of their own sisterhood around
Ward Tipton Added Sep 25, 2018 - 7:58am
Woman drunk? Man Baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaad!
 
Man drunk? Throw his butt in jail! Chemical castration! 
Dr. Rupert Green Added Sep 25, 2018 - 5:52pm
@rycK the JFK Democrat  "I  think Anita Hill was a liar and activist trying to stop a conservative from a seat on SCOTUS. Nothing else. "
 
Do you believe these current possible three White women are also liars?  If it were Weinstein being named for a high positions and women came out would you say they were liars? Did you initially believe the women who came out against Bill Cosby?
 
@ FacePalm,
 
"Frankly, i'm glad of the #me too movement, and hope many more sexual predators - male AND female - get their comeuppance.  i wouldn't mind some prosecutions for "aiding and abetting," too, like for Oprah, who allegedly set Weinstein up with MANY victims - or at the very least, prosecutions under Good Samaritan statutes, where people like Meryl Creep get busted for failing to warn others of the predators they KNEW about, again like Weinstein, but many more, too, like the "gay mafia" producers in Hellyweird who demand homosexual favors as a condition of their approval."
 
I see you are an equal opportunity hater of perverts irrespective of race. That is a good thing. I have four daughters and ... well let's say I keep my shit sharpened. 
 
@Dino. " Sex abuse is serious, they shouldn't make false allegations for political reasons!"
 
Why would someone tarnish their reputation before the world and their students with false allegations?  I hope this nominee is defeated. Too late for him to step down to avoid his family further shame, so he has to dig in his heel. What you are seen has roots in the formation of our country. America chose to worship celebrity as opposed to the British worship of royalty. Additional, bringing down celebrity was also adopted.
Dr. Rupert Green Added Sep 25, 2018 - 6:02pm
@ Ken. "If you were around in 1991, Anita Hill was completely discredited and unbelievable in her testimony. 
 
Hillary Clinton enabled Bill Clinton's behavior. 
 
Does this happen?  yes.  Is it right? No.
 
But because it does happen doesn't mean it happened here, and so far there has been nothing credible and nothing corroborated about it."
 
America's attitudinal pedigree from 1981 to now has shifted drastically. Two men could not be shown having sex on TV. Thanks to Obama that changed. Hence, in this current time past perceived lies would be seen as possible truth. Isn't one's outlook on this event lensed by their political affiliation?  Really! I am a Republican. How then does my stance jive? Does the enlightened see things differently?
Dr. Rupert Green Added Sep 25, 2018 - 6:08pm
@Hidage. "Doc -  You need to get a radio program! That would be fun"
 
Yes, this ode to merriment, gaiety, and frivolity sure beats the Dark, Dank; Deleterious (DDD)  KKK informed atmosphere that existed a priori. Was on the radio couple times. 
Dr. Rupert Green Added Sep 25, 2018 - 6:16pm
@ Cullen. "So the author is arguing against the MeToo Movement and saying it's all good for men to coerce women into sex (so long as the women get something out of it)? Win / Win? 
 
A little prostitution never hurt anybody? 
 
And you're concerned the MeToo Movement will have the effect of castrating boys now growing up? "
 
No and yes.  I am pointing out the experience of Caribbean women and the terror/price they have to endure to get a green card-- from upstanding White men-- which leads to the opening of many doors, even home ownership. The bad part is the pussification of men may be the drawback from updrawl of their Johnsons.
Dr. Rupert Green Added Sep 25, 2018 - 6:25pm
@Facepalm. "That you don't like this reality does not change it, more's the pity.
 
Consider the plight of women in Germany, for example, or Sweden, when it comes to Muslim immigrants who think they're entitled to rape any woman not wearing the tent...instead of exercising self-control and humane restraint of their lusts."
 
Is that shit really happening? Then Swedes men need to drop their frocks for pants and defend their women. Is the police in cohort with the rapists? Perhaps there is the need for a frontlash as opposed to a backlash. Here is the problem, at one time there was a mobilization of bias against Black men for their perceived monsterous schlong. Equally, there was a backlash against Jews from Christians because their cleaned headed schlongs were seen as the devil's tool to inflict a hurting on pure and White Christian maidens. says something about circumcision.
rycK the JFK Democrat Added Sep 25, 2018 - 6:26pm
Dr. Rupert Green
 
"Do you believe these current possible three White women are also liars?  "
 
They have no corroboration to their claims, conveniently timed to delay the nomination. Why should I believe  them?
 
"If it were Weinstein being named for a high positions and women came out would you say they were liars? Did you initially believe the women who came out against Bill Cosby?"
 
I would want some kind proof beyond a mere accusation. Anita Hill had nothing. 
 
Do you believe the women who came out against Bill Clinton were liars. Paula Jones got a fat settlement . 
Dr. Rupert Green Added Sep 25, 2018 - 6:33pm
@Hitage. "Hey Doc - I got ya....you're just telling the truth.  
 
Woman, thy name is vanity. Some ladies just dont wanna hear it, some men are just too scared to say it, but in vernacular : bitches be bitches."
 
Listen, we could open up Pandora's Box and a whole heap of shit comes our depending on the size of her box. A box size and friskiness have to do with a man engaging in crawling. So women, if you do not keep your box tight, you are headed for divorce. Of course, the upstanding italian husband will keep up appearance but keep a Gomora on the side. Sorry, mixing
 up my Sadam and gohommara.
Dr. Rupert Green Added Sep 25, 2018 - 6:41pm
@Hidage. "I have no problem with women standing up for themselves, but before they go casting all of the onus on the men, they should instead be slappin' some of their own sisterhood around"
 
That bolded discussion could open a different kettle of worm. It is a fact that certain Jamaican men went down under and the woman stood up taller than he could. There was a Crocodile Dundee scene where he saw a beautiful chick and as he approached her a dude alerted him. He did what I have named the Dundee test and low an behold the lady was packing a bigger pecker.
 
Dr. Rupert Green Added Sep 25, 2018 - 6:46pm
@Tipon. "Woman drunk? Man Baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaad!
 
Man drunk? Throw his butt in jail! Chemical castration! "
 
The danger here is men may take off the gloves and begin to fight back. One of the first thing that may go is chivalry. Men may no longer own up to the term "manhole," and demand that it be called what it truly is. A womam....
Rusty Smith Added Sep 25, 2018 - 8:45pm
For every womanizing man there is a women who enjoys using her sexuality provocatively so she can get interested men to give her opportunities she'd not otherwise get.
 
There are plenty of women out there who lay it out there and flaunt it around provocatively, with no intention of actually giving it away. 
 
Unfortunately for many, most women are clearly the weaker sex and if they get men too interested, too often, some will easily overpower them and give them what they "asked for"!
 
That doesn't make it right, but women who do that and play with fire, lose my sympathy.    If you don't want to be treated like a sex object, don't act like one.  
The Burghal Hidage Added Sep 25, 2018 - 10:59pm
LOL.......you are great Doc! Always a good read
The Burghal Hidage Added Sep 25, 2018 - 11:02pm
I thought my greatest artistic talent was drawing flies. You've helped me recall my other medium: the kettle or can of worms.
 
Enough flies and worms and one is bound to catch some fish, only to hope that it not be distempered tuna :)
Ward Tipton Added Sep 26, 2018 - 1:41am
Is this where I break in and start making jokes about Dick 'Taters? 
 
(For those such as Stone who are confounded by the complexities of the American Southern Drawl, and the Middle American English it stems from, "Taters" would be the local vernacular for potatoes. 
The Burghal Hidage Added Sep 26, 2018 - 6:34am
LOL
Dr. Rupert Green Added Sep 26, 2018 - 9:15am
K, as I said, a little gaiety and frivolity lighten the heart. A woman adding a little friskiness to it will cause a minister to put his bible down or a sinner to open wide his wallet to aligned with her widened pelvis. Not to cast asperation on the upstanding men on FB who has been faithfully married to the same woman for 30 plus years as Tim McGrivie was to his wife.
rycK the JFK Democrat Added Sep 29, 2018 - 12:44pm
Rusty
 
"For every womanizing man there is a women who enjoys using her sexuality provocatively so she can get interested men to give her opportunities she'd not otherwise get."
 
This is an interesting observation. We can consider what the ladies that attend the singles bars in NYC or walk the streets on 8th Ave or join ski clubs are up to. 
 
If you walk into a bar and see a woman alone in some hot dress with a plunging neckline and a short skirt we can wonder what she is up to. Is she drinking beer?
 
Is this a honey trap?
Ward Tipton Added Sep 30, 2018 - 12:50am
Mmmmmmmmmmmmmm ... hoooooooooneeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeey!!!
Dr. Rupert Green Added Sep 30, 2018 - 9:35am
@Rusty. "If you walk into a bar and see a woman alone in some hot dress with a plunging neckline and a short skirt we can wonder what she is up to. Is she drinking beer?"
 
I rebuke you in the name of ... for having so little faith in mankind.
 
Couldn't the lady be waiting for a pastor to come and engage her in Sunday school activities?

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